With or without religion, you would have good people doing good things and evil people doing evil things. But for good people to do evil things, that takes religion.
-Steven Weinberg

The good life, as I conceive it, is a happy life. I do not mean that if you are good you will be happy - I mean that if you are happy you will be good.
-Bertrand Russell

Too much sanity may be madness and the maddest of all, to see life as it is and not as it should be.
-Miguel de Cervantes

The only way to find the limits of the possible is by going past them into the impossible.
-Arthur C. Clarke

October 18, 2009 - 5:16 p.m.

Farewell FHDC

What am I going to write about today? I have nothing planned and I didn't do anything to write about. The weather has been miserable and I've been keeping warm and dry in my apartment. This is when I really miss my trench coat. I need a new one ASAP. Anyone know a place I can get a vintage one in the City? What do I want? Humphrey Bogart's coat from Casablanca. I want the hat too.


When I went online to find that photo I also found what I'm going to write about.

When I first went online I used AOL. I used their browser and didn't choose a start page. When I finally started using my own browser I chose Frühead.com as my start page. It is where I spent the most time. It is where I made the bulk of my online friends. It is where I did my socializing. I'd stay up half the night talking to people. I was always active. I started forums, I suggested polls, It was my place of online business. Moxy Früvous stopped touring in 2001 and people started drifting away. I stayed and I stayed and I stayed. It was my online security blanket. The other day I fired up firefox and found I was the only one on FHDC. That defeats the purpose of a social networking site. So just now I finally pulled the trigger and changed my start page to Facebook. It is where I spend my time now but it isn't the same. It isn't a community. I rarely meet people there. I don't get involved in long discussions. It doesn't feel like the Little Rascals clubhouse.

My social life was never better than FHDC's heyday. For years I would talk to two people every day, Carey and Leah, both Früheads. When I was in the hospital I got calls from around the world. They were all from Früheads. To this day if I road trip the odds are that I'm staying with a Frühead. When I started blogging all of my readers were Fruheads. I know it isn't true anymore but when I think of my Gentle Readers that is the audience I think of.

I'm moving on but that doesn't mean that I have to like it. I miss Früheads far more than I miss Früvous. It was a unique confluence of people and events. I can't go looking for a replacement. It has to happen naturally.

In short, there's simply not
A more congenial spot
For happily-ever-aftering than here
In Camelot.





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